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Thursday, January 12, 2006

New Blog Announcement

Yes, I have a new blog - again. Why?

Since the purpose of my business blog is to reach more people and impart image management tips to them, I thought it would be great to partner up with a company who can do the PR part for me to reach a greater audience. Hence, the new entries will be posted on:

www.imageaide.com

The blog platform is created by KMM. The look and feel of the blog will improve as the team will continuously work on it.

Enjoy!

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

class system and image

I was doing some internet research on different types of cruises, since I will be going on one soon. The trip was booked, but it didn't stop my curiosity about other cruises, especially the very expensive cruises on Cunard's QE2 and Queen Mary. Cunard is known to be the "high class" cruise company.

Interestingly, class system exists in Cunard's ships. I've been on a few cruises (not from Cunard) in the past, and even though people pay different prices for the cabins and luxuries they can afford, the restaurants within the cruise ships do not limit the type of people who go in. However, within Cunard's boats, people who pay for the highest price range cabins get to be in the best restaurant (with more choices and better services), while those who pay less, get to go to restaurants that are not as "high class" in food selection and services.

At first, I thought it was a bad rule to implement, since people who can afford to go on QE2 or Queen Mary will not be poor, to say the least. And presently it is beyond year 2000 - class system is mostly out. However, after contemplating the issue, I can understand why it was implemented, based on personal experience (not cruise related).

Take, for example, where I live. In the first few years people were courteous and quiet, and hardly anyone would litter the place. However, as newer people moved in, there were more noise and more litter. Some of these people also have kids. When they have parties, they are loud. They also bring their guests to the pool and sauna area, where they splash like crazy, and strip naked to enjoy the sauna heat. It is difficult to enjoy the facilities when these people are around. They also do not put their garbage in the chute properly, nor would they sort out appropriately recyclable waste in the right bins.

These new neighbours may or may not be rich. However rich they are, it is hard to consider them "first class". What distinguishes a person from "high class" from the normal class, is their etiquette.

It's not about how much money a person has, but about how considerate a person is. Does the person care about others enough not to create too much disturbing noise? Does the person care about others so that he won't litter public facilities?

This is why there are differences between people from "old money" and those who are from "new money". This sounds like talk of discrimination, but from what I hear, "new money" people have the type of ego that promotes selfishness while being inconsiderate to others. To say it in another way, they have terrible manners.

Good etiquette gives a person self respect and gains the respect of others, whereas selfishness promotes the class system (as no one want to be around those who are not considerate of others).

Friday, January 06, 2006

I got jipped - because of their great image!

I've taken two weeks off resting my mind. I didn't go anywhere special, but it was nice not to think about business in that mini mind vacation. Now I'm back, gradually moving into a routine once again.

During one of my days off in Boxing Week, I was "dragged" to shop. Shopping under pressure only brings out two things in me: hunger and fatigue. Hunger arrived first. I was at Sherway, so naturally I went upstairs to the food court, expecting fast service. Hero Burger jumped out - so burger it was for lunch!

The whole counter looked great. I got the message that they made their burgers seriously. They even had Angus Beef. Plus, someone told me their burgers were amazing. It wouldn't hurt to try, even at $5.00 for a basic burger.

As soon as I took my first bite, I was disappointed. For $5.00 CDN I got something that wasn't up to the quality of A&W's famous Mama Burger (Mama Burger is half the price). The best part of the burger was the bun. The beef didn't taste as good, and the texture of the meat wasn't as great as Mama Burger. The whole burger experience was at best average.

To make the matter worse, I had a milkshake. The menu read: 90% ice cream, 10% milk. I expected a nice, thick vanilla shake. Hero Burger's milkshake sells for $3.00. What did I get? Vanilla tasting milk. NOT shake. It was the thinnest shake I've ever had in my life. I could do better than that at home! It must have been 95% milk, and 5% vanilla flavoring. Hence, the whole experience of eating Hero Burger's burger and drinking their shake, was definitely 2 stars at best. This is with compassion. One star if I had to count their lack of smile. I guess they didn't like McDonald's menu - smiles for free.

Lesson of the day: a great image may attract a customer once, but it will never make a customer return.

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Make Up Tip #5: Fill in the Brows

This is an important step that many women miss. Many tend to think that they can pluck their brows, colour their eyes, lips and cheeks, and off they go, they are finished - wrong! Without properly groomed and coloured eyebrows, the face looks as if something is missing.

Many don't know that they can have a lot of fun creating different brow shapes just by using a brush and eyeshadow powder. If you want an arch yet do not have a natural one, you may blot one on! If your brows are too short, elongate them by drawing them in. If your brows are too thin, you may thicken it by blotting in extra "hairs", which are of course, the powder. If you have heavy make up on, darken the brows more. If you have light make up on, just use a little. It takes practice, but well worth the effort. Afterall, the brows frame the face.

First, choose an eyeshadow colour that is close to the colour of your hair. If your hair is very dark, choose dark brown. If your hair is blond, choose taupe. If your hair is red, choose reddish brown. If your hair is white, or gray, choose a dark gray. If your hair is black, you may choose a bitter chocolate brown or black. I'd use caution if black is used - it can look harsh if not applied well.

Second, use a proper eyebrow brush. This means no toothbrush or mascara wands, even though plenty of fashion magazines have advised that. Why? Because they don't work. An eyebrow brush may be made of real hair, or taklon, and should be very small at the tip. It is usually cut at an angle as well, for easy application.

Third, use the eyebrow brush to brush the eyebrows. Then dip the brush in the shadow, flick off the extra powders, and test it on your hand. If the colour is dark enough, begin to apply on the brows beginning from the inside (close to the nose), then work towards the outer end. Do NOT draw on the brow, but slowly blot the colour on the brow. If you brush it on, the effect will be harsh. Imagine planting a few hairs at a time on your brows in areas that are sparse - this is what you are doing. Blot the colours on bit by bit.

Towards the outer end of the eyebrows, stop the blotting, but lightly and sharply draw the ends, so that the ends are pointed, not blunt.

I must stress that the brows must be plucked once every few days to keep the stray hair away. They may need to be trimmed, if they are too long.

Stay tuned for Make Up Tip #6: Eyeshadow application!

Monday, December 19, 2005

They are Too Cool for Me

Toronto's Queen Street West has a unique culture. It is a place full of creative people, people who are not part of the culture of the masses. It is cool, hip and trendy, supposedly.

Why supposedly?

Even though the culture of Queen Street is very different from the rest of the city, the "coolness" of it is rather tasteless. Some examples -

1. Fresh (the vegetarian restaurant): people raved about it. 2 friends of mine brought me there in 2 different times. Yet each time the food was unimpressive. The sauces were glue-like in consistency (eew!), their veggie burger pattie dry and crumbly, and their tofu tasted strange (a bit sour - as if it's bad. I'm Asian, so I know what tofu tastes like in almost all kinds of dishes. Heck, maybe the tofu was bad that day). Their cookies choked me because of the dryness. The prices were ridiculous for the quality of food served. The place was cool though, and the staff good looking.

2. Preloved: I previously wrote an entry about Preloved's line of clothing. I purchased a piece from Holt Renfrew. As I searched their website, I was overjoyed to see that they have their own store on Queen. So off I went this weekend to the store, just to be disappointed with the entire collection and their staff. The sales girls were pretty and hip, yet whatever I tried on they would compliment me, which would have been OK, but the clothes looked bad on me! The cuts didn't fit my bodytype. However, they were all very nice and were never pushy. The selection of clothes was disappointing. It's typical Queen Street style - mismatched fabrics that looked worn out. The prices are reasonable. Their best selection is at Holt Renfrew, where the buyer probably took a lot of time choosing the best pieces for the store.

3. Last weekend I was famished. I entered a restaurant that looked "creative", in that it used different, almost uncoordinated pieces of furniture for tables and chairs. The diners looked bookishly cool (NOT nerd like). Some of them were reading. Some were chatting. Some just sat and relaxed. The only table left was a make shift table with a heater as support with a piece of glass on top. Two old airchairs were placed as seats. I sat down, and after 10 seconds I decided this was not the place to eat. Too uncomfortable. I'm not cool enough to be uncomfortable. So I left and went to the nice restaurant beside them and enjoyed an eggs benedict lunch there.

In summary, Queen Street is cool without substance.

Since this is an image blog, what does the above has to do with image?

Queen Street has the image of people who are too into cultivated looks and attitudes (in this case, cool, hip and trendy) without taking into account the inner quality beneath the surface.

For an image to be successful, the outer image transformation must be integrated with the inner image. No matter how chic and wonderful the outer image is, if the inner image isn't cultivated to reflect all that beauty, the life won't change much. The outer image becomes an empty shell.

As an image consultant, I help people with their outer image transformation, with clothing and grooming, and communication skills. But the inner transformation depends solely on the person. People will at first respond to you positively when you look great. But they will also sooner or later detect who you are inside. Who says image transformation is easy? It's a lot of hard work.

Meanwhile, I will not go to Queen Street for a long time.

Friday, December 16, 2005

Shopping in Hell

Recently I had second thoughts about shopping for clients. When I shop at malls, all I saw were seas of people with screaming kids. Rude shoppers, rude workers and rude drivers. Shopping in weekends agitated me. I went to Sporting Life quite a few times, and if I had go one more time I'd kill myself. Shopping these weeks with frantic Christmas shoppers and Christmas songs blasting through the malls made me hate the holidays. I thought maybe I didn't want to go through this anymore. Shopping in malls felt like shopping in hell.

However, today, I remember why I am an Image Consultant.

I booked an early shopping trip with a client. Shopping this early with only a handful of people around keeps the mood pleasant. I found everything for this client in just 4 stores in 2 hours. As I looked at the client trying on the new clothes, I remembered my mission: to see and reveal beauty in people. I was so happy when I saw how wonderful the client looked in the new outfits. I felt excited at the new possibilities for him.

Seeing beauty in people makes shopping enjoyable.

(just no more Christmas carols, please!)

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

New Year's Resolution

It's that time of the year again. I wonder if New Year's resolution work for anyone.

For me, I've never bothered. It seemed to be a silly idea to make changes in my life on that day. If I want to change, I'd do it now. Why wait?

A common list of New Year's resolution that people should just plunge in and do, rather than wait -

1. weight loss
2. better diet
3. exercise
4. find a new job
5. find a boyfriend/girlfriend
6. change your wardrobe
7. pamper yourself more
8. get out of debt
9. save some money
10. whatever else...

What is the point of waiting? You'll never know how long you'll live! Make the changes now, even if you have to do so in baby steps; don't wait.